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Chasing that good life? Obsession is what you need to actually get there

Turns out mastering an amazing life comes from obsession, which is just endless fascination with one or more things in your life.


All we truly need in life for our souls is an obsession with learning about and getting better at at least one thing in life - whether it’s a sport, an art, a science, an object, a person, an idea.


What’s that thing for you? What’s that thing that fascinated you in childhood and beyond that you buried deep within your soul? What’s that thing that makes you lose track of time? What’s that thing that lights up your entire face when you speak about it? What’s that thing that gives you life every time you do it?


Find that thing. Focus your attention, resources, and time on it more. Feel that connection with it. Let it pull you under. Relish that pure joy you got when you immerse yourself in it.


Remember how that thing makes you feel like you touched infinity?

Remember how that thing gaves you wings that made you want to fly?

Remember how that thing made you love living so much more?


Now stop remembering, and go out there and find that again. Find that thing and make a permanent space for it in your life. 


There’s no better feeling than finding that feeling of being alive after losing it to time and memory….

Or maybe there is.

Maybe the best feeling is unearthing that aliveness and returning it back to your life.


You tell me. Find that thing. Find that feeling. Find that aliveness. Start living again.


Let me know how it goes. I can’t wait to hear your stories!


 
 
 

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